Should I take that serious?

I'm sure I'm not the only female that hears men say certain things and be like , "wait,?shoukd i take that serious?" ok I knew I Wasn't alone . I believe that men sometime say shit just because they think we as females wanna hear it when in reality, we just wanna hear the truth. Like instead of filling her head with bullshit that you'll soon regret, fill it with the truth. On numerous occasions I've been bamboozled by dudes and their lies , I know I'm not the only one so stfu and fix your face. For instance, I was talking to a man , well a boy, well a man bc of his age and a boy bc of his actions. We talked for months , everything seemed coo, well it was coo on my end. I feel like I was good to him while he was away. Tried to brighten his days while he was away with emails and pics or whatnot, even took time outta my life to send a package. Everything was really good, up until he came home. BOOOM! Everything changed drastically. I was overly excited about him coming home near my birthday bc I've never had anyone to spend my birthday with and being as though I'm getting older, I feel like it'd be a good time. NOPE. DIDN'T HAPPEN. he arrived, I didn't see em, valentines day came, I made sure he got his gift but did I get anything in return? NOPE. not even a happy Valentines day wish from em, I guess he was that busy with his grandmother on valentines day. Yea same face I made but I'm not gone hound a man to do what men do so I got over valentines day, my birthday was next. Yea well I never seen em on my birday, his haircut was way more important than seeing me before I left the state for a few days. Riiiiiiiighht. Pure bullshit. That's why I'm like , should I take that serious? I took every word he ever spoke of wrote to me serious, I made sure he felt how I would wanna feel when talking to someone. The I miss you messages and yea we gone hang out messages quickly ended bc why? Ooooooooooooooh let's see.... Idk lol I do know the nights when he wasn't keepin his word and spending time with me were spent with other ppl , yes bitches. But no hard feelings, this was just another lesson on why I shouldn't take you serious . :) I just wAnt the truth from ppl, it's like men say a lotta unnecessary shit when they can just keep it real and get to the point, don't bullshit ppl into thinking you feel a certain way knowing you don't. It's 2012, most females just wanna fuck too. IJS